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Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour is set to roll into Canada in November, and the streets of Toronto will be swarmed with Swifties for six nights. They’ll be costumed in their favourite era and frantically trading friendship bracelets with song titles to stack on their arms.
Are you a Swiftie? What about one of Lady Gaga’s Little Monsters? Or maybe you’re part of the BTS ARMY? Do you follow any sports team or figure fanatically? What about YouTubers or Instagram influencers?
Most people are fans of some type of celebrity, whether it’s music, sports, cooking or digital. But some may be in parasocial relationships with these celebs. Are you? How do you know the difference?
Global News in a May 2024 article defines parasocial relationships as, “a strong, one-sided, intimate connection with another person who doesn’t know they exist.” People typically form parasocial relationships with celebrities, but these types of relationships can also extend to fictional characters from a book, cartoon or game.
These types of relationships are quite common and not new. York University psychology professor Raymond Mar’s research focuses on how imagined experiences can affect someone’s real world perceptions.
He points to the 1940’s as a tipping point for parasocial relationships. Back then, people became connected to newscasters. They heard their voices of authority daily, which fostered a sense of closeness.
Obviously social media has accelerated and amplified the parasocial relationship phenomenon. We now have access to so much BTS – what skincare celebs are using, what they ate for breakfast, their kids’ birthday parties, their vacations, their down moments – that we feel like we know them. But in actuality of course, we don’t.
Parasocial relationships are typically harmless. They start with some sort of interaction or experience that inspires curiosity or a desire to learn more. My friend just played me this awesome song from this new artist. I watched a new TV show with a breakout star. I caught some of the game last night and this amazing player scored three goals.
Signs that fandom has morphed into a parasocial relationship can include:
Parasocial relationships can be characterized as unhealthy or toxic if they:
While some parasocial relationships can devolve into unhealthy patterns, forming parasocial relationships can also be positive in several ways:
Kids have a lot of access to celebrities, influencers, gaming and TV on apps and social media. It’s natural that they will be fans and maybe even develop some parasocial relationships too. What can you do to ensure that those parasocial relationships are healthy and productive?
Parasocial relationships are fairly common and typically healthy. They have become even more prevalent in our digital world and social media landscape. How do you help kids learn about parasocial relationships and understand them? Consistent conversation and critical thinking are key. By helping kids identify and think critically about their own online experiences and resulting feelings and behaviours, you give kids the confidence to pursue their passions, follow their curiosity, learn about what they love and develop healthy relationships. To learn more about healthy online relationships, participate in this interactive quiz.
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